4.08.2008

Cute Like a Little Baby Turtle

It is inevitable. There are boys that you want to like – you really do – they are amazing. You have great conversation, you enjoy their company, they make you laugh - but there is just no spark or heat. A good friend of mine once said, "Well, you could rub your bodies together and try to create some heat!" Unfortunately, it is not that easy [at least I don't think so – I haven't actually tried…yet]
My roommates and I call these types of guys the cute-like-a-baby-turtle guys. There are different types of cute. And these are the ones that really do have a good-lookin' face, there's just no real attraction there [you know, the I just couldn’t picture myself kissing that face, face].
So what’s a girl to do?
Settle? Maybe the spark and heat isn’t really all they hype it up to be [er….]
Give it more time and hope God makes them more attractive or gives you new eyes?
If only you could give them a little Edward Norton juice to drink….

4 comments:

Olivia Hein said...

and you know what's odd, guys have the same thing happen to them! they'll be dating a girl, and she's cute and funny and all that but there's just no spark.

that spark thing is so freakin' tricky! :)

Justin said...

Would drinking Ed Norton juice make me white?

Unknown said...

Regarding the 'spark', here's a quote from a University of Hawaii psychologist:

"It seemed only people in the West were goofy enough to marry for passionate love, but in all of the cultures I've studied, people love wildly."

Awesome.

Dave and Betsy's Blog said...

Spark is necessary...but I have to say that sometimes the spark does really develop b/c I think timing or a place someone is in determines whether someone is ready to feel the spark. Does that make sense?

Don't settle but I wouldn't say write a person off though either. Maybe be open to something developing, or just try the rubbing bodies thing.

Bets